"Note 1: This register is obsolete. It is recommended that a device not respond
to a read of this address. If a device does respond, it shall be sure not to
drive the DD7 signal to prevent possible conflict with floppy disk
implementations."
Happy to help with #9. Mike has the latest code, but it was originally mine so we can certainly get you going with that easily enough.
I'm just about to have XTIDE rev 2 parts show up, so I'm going to going through your exact same situation on the non-jr front, so I can share your pain.